I know that sibling rivalry is not uncommon and there are MANY families in which bothers and sisters don't get on but I really don't see the deal with my sister!
She expects to be able to have anything of mine she wants, she expects my boyfriend and I to take and pick her and her mates up to and from places, if she wants somthing doing ahe expects me to drop anything I'm doing and do it for her, she expects me to perswade mum and dad to allow her to go to gigs during school nights (knowing full well that we're not allowed out on a school night!).
I tidy her room, I help her with work or problems, I there for her to talk too when she's really upset about somthing (SH stuff), I lend her everything I have, including money, I keep her secrets and stuff she doesn't want mum and dad to know about, I stick up for her and defend her if someone slags her off....Guess what I get in return for all this.
I'm not allowed to touch anything of hers, she kicks and hits me if she doesn't get her own way (although that's not as common now) worst of all, she slags me off to all her mates in both real life and on the net and posts rather upsetting images of me on the net....such as my face super imposed over various things like gnomes etc. She also finds pics and saves them under titles like reallyugly.gif. She has a go at me about not having many friends and refuses to give me a straight answer when asked a question.
We've never got on, we've always fought, so much so that in some of our fights both of us have drawn blood and I've sprained her arm twice. people say that as you get older you become closer....well that's a laugh. The older she gets the more bitchy and frustraiting she gets.
I don't slag her off and don't confuse this post as a revenge post ( that is what this is for *grin* [link] ) I just need to vent some anger...
How can she treat me so badly after i do so much for her!
and why...after i know who she reacts, do I KEEP on doing the same stuff for her?